How do your health issues influence your decisions?
I came up with a list of areas in life where health issues may play a part in decision making. Maybe you can relate, or maybe you have other areas of concern and influence that I haven't mentioned here. Let me know. I'd love to hear about them.
Home:
- Where to live: type of structure, apartment, assisted living, house, climate that's best for your allergies, etc.
- Close to doctors/hospitals
- Wheel-chair accessible
- No stairs, one-story, ramps installed
- Security
- Convenient parking
School:
- The major/program you choose
- Location
- Accessibility
- Campus support
- Proximity to doctors/hospital
- Clubs available
- Campus community vibe: accepting, friendly, helpful, positive
Job:
- Accessibility of the facility/office
- Discrimination
- Convenient location
- Convenient parking
- The vibe you get from the interviewer/staff
- The type of job you want to do: do you want to help people in the health field, or do you spend enough time in doctor's offices and hospitals already. There are other ways you can help others, though, so you may want to think about it.
Relationships:
- Friendships: Who do you connect with? Who treats you like everyone else? What about the accessibility to local hangouts and social clubs? Can you get to where you can meet new people and also hang out with current friends to encourage bonding?What's your attitude toward others? What are their attitudes toward you? Do you hang out with people who are different from you and maybe not all that nice just because they are popular?
- Romance: Do your health issues influence who you marry/partner with? Do they really "get" you? Do you get positive vibes from them? Are they compassionate and understanding? Do you have the same lifestyle? Do they have health issues, too, or not? Do you want kids? Do they? Do you share the same hobbies and interests?
Activities:
- What sports do you like? Is that connected to your health issues
- What about the books that you read?
- Games you play?
- Where you travel, or if you travel at all?
- Where you go for walks/wheels?
- Accessibility
- Attitude: Yours and that of others
- Maybe you check things out beforehand to see if you can handle them. Have a practice run at an activity. Check out the facilities.
- Do you ask your doctor before you try an activity?
Family:
- Do you want to be near them in case you have a medical emergency and need their assistance?
- Do you want to be far away from them because they have always sheltered you and made you feel like you couldn't do anything on your own?
- Have they fostered your independence?
- How has that influenced your decisions and decision-making skills?
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