Showing posts with label phone coaching. Show all posts
Showing posts with label phone coaching. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 13, 2015

The First Four Sessions




Happy Wednesday!  Here's video #2 for you!  It's about the first four coaching sessions in general.  For more information check out my home page  for the different coaching packages and how coaching works.  Feel free to contact me with questions or comments below or at amy@acnlifecoach.com .  Thanks.  Take care!




Friday, May 1, 2015

Sit Less, Move More

 
Sitting too much is a big problem in our society.  We're busy, for sure, but we do a lot of busy work sitting down.  Here are examples of when we sit the most, and possible alternatives.  

Talking on the Phone:  Whether at work, at home, or in the car, we're often sedentary while talking on the phone, although I've also seen many people walking through airports, down sidewalks, and through malls with a phone glued to their ear.  That's a whole different topic in and of itself.  I'll save that for another blog post.  For now, let's concentrate on a alternatives to sitting and talking on the phone.  At work, you could pace back and forth in your office, deliver a report in person to a coworker, or stand and do stretches.  At home, try walking around your house, doing squats, or taking a walk outside.  In the car, well, you could pull over to take or make a call and get out for a good stretch.  If you can't get out of the car, put the cruise control on and wiggle your toes and  "march" in place to help increase the circulation during long commutes on the highway.  

Waiting in the Doctor's Office:  Instead of sitting there reading four-year-old magazines or reading your latest Kindle selection, stand up and walk in place for a bit, do some calf stretches, and then mini squats.  If you would rather not do this little workout in front of a room full of strangers,  then you can take it outside.  Ask at the desk approximately how long the wait will be when you check in.  If you've got 10 minutes or more before the doctor will see you, inform the staff of your plans to walk a bit.  If you see someone you know in the waiting room, invite them to join you.  

Watching Television:  After a long day, you may just feel like lounging on the couch while you watch your favorite television shows.  Rest and sleep are essential for rejuvenation and health.  But if you've been sitting all day, it's important to get up and move any chance you get.  Leave snacks on the kitchen counter so you'll have to get up to get them (um, and don't watch TV in the kitchen).  During each commercial break, do a set of push ups, sit ups, or jumping jacks.  If you have the space, you could even put your treadmill or elliptical in the same room as the TV, so you could get your cardio in while you enjoy your favorite programs.  If you have weights at home, get some strength training in as well.

Surfing the Net:  With all the mobile devices out there today, it can be easy to stand or walk and surf at the same time.  But be aware of your surroundings.  Don't go bumping into, cutting off, or knocking down others just to keep moving and surfing at the same time.  If you're using a laptop or desktop, be sure to take a break every 20 to 30 minutes to get up, stretch, walk around the house or office, feed the cat, take the dog for a walk, fix lunch, have a bathroom break, get some coffee, and so on.  There are plenty of reasons to take those breaks, the most important being your health.

Enjoying Your Hobbies:  It is easy to get caught up in reading your favorite book, or painting your latest masterpiece, or sorting through old photographs to put in a scrapbook, or trying to solve a crossword puzzle.  But you need to get up and move now and then.  You could very well stand to do these things, but standing for a long period of time isn't a good idea either.  You need that movement to keep your body healthy.  Try setting a timer for 20 minutes.  Every 20 minutes make a point to get up out of your seat, walk around, and stretch.  Also, try starting these activities about 30-45 minutes before you need to pick the kids up at school, leave for an important meeting, or prepare for a friend's arrival.  That way, you get some satisfying downtime in, but you're not sitting there for hours on end.  

Hopefully these tips will help you move more and sit less.  I'm always looking for new ideas.  Let me know how you've managed to add more movement to you day.  Comment below or email me at amy@acnlifecoach.com.  Thanks!  Have a great weekend.  And, remember to move!  :-)

Monday, April 27, 2015

Oh, For Laughing Out Loud!

I am a fan of Loretta LaRoche.  Recently she wrote a piece on laughter.  She noted that laughter has many mental and physical benefits, and that it has gotten her through health issues.  I agree whole-heartedly.  

I've spent a good deal of time in the hospital and doctors' offices throughout my life due to spina bifida.  I've relied on laughter to get me through some tough spots.  I've found that, although hospital stays, surgeries, and doctors' visits can be frustrating and frightening, I can always find something to laugh about.  Whether it's mistaking a cervix for a hemorrhoid, a roommate having a facelift in order to look good for Bingo, or a surprisingly funny remark from a doctor, they take the edge off very uncomfortable circumstances.  It helps to laugh through struggles.  

I was particularly taken off guard by a beloved doctor who was quite conservative.  I was at his office for a pre-surgery physical.  When he walked in, he said, "So, are you scared poopless?"  I never thought I'd hear him say something like that.  After I picked my chin off the floor, I started laughing.  And, I remembered his remark throughout the whole process of blood work, pre-op, post-op, and recovery.  Every time I thought of it, I laughed.  And I recovered quite fast despite it being quite a major surgery.  Another of my doctor's told me later that his doing that surgery was a gutsy move.  But he did it for me; to improve my quality of life, and he helped me through it by making me laugh.  A top notch doctor with a heart of gold, and a sense of humor I had never seen until it was really needed.  Kudos to him, and all the other doctors out there who drop their guard a bit to show their human sides in order to help their patients through difficult situations.  I think it helps more than all the medication and surgeries just to know that the doctor truly cares about me.  It boosts my spirits when they drop their guard and helps me have more confidence in them.  And, I believe my confidence in them helps them do what needs to be done to help me.  It's a two-way street.  

Okay, so the next time you are heading to surgery, or you're facing some other difficult situation, I want you to dig deep inside and find something funny about it.  Purposely look for anything--big or small--that could be considered comical about the current fix you've found yourself in.  Can't possibly find anything amusing about such a scary, frustrating or just plain stupid circumstance?  Then fake it!  That still provides benefits.  Force yourself to giggle.  Try it.  Just a little bit at first.  Then increase it over time, finding any excuse to giggle.  Go for it--for health!

Now I'd like to hear how laughter has helped you through tough situations, medical or otherwise.  Post comments below, or email me at amy@acnlifecoach.com.  I can't wait to read how you've benefited from laughter.  

Live Well, Laugh Often, Love Much,
Amy :-) 

Thursday, April 23, 2015

What Is a Life Coach?

Hi!  Welcome to my blog.  I'll be writing about life and life coaching.  Some topics I plan to cover are motivation, weight loss, fitness, special needs, goals, positive thinking, habits, balancing work-home life, getting unstuck,  community involvement, self-esteem, making your dreams come true one step at a time, breaking down road blocks that stand in the way of you realizing your goals, how to get the most out of your life coaching sessions, believing in yourself, and shaking up your life to make it the best it can be.  

First, though, what is a life coach?  

What is a life coach?

A life coach helps you change your life for the better.  A life coach is a guide, a motivator, and a listener, not a psychotherapist, counselor, or consultant.  A life coach doesn't have the answers, but she does ask the questions which will help guide you to your own answers to problems in your life that make you feel "stuck."  Let's say, for example, you are bored with your job but you don't see any way that you can leave it.  The life coach helps you figure out, through discussion and exercises, how to jazz up that current job and make it more satisfying. (Click here for more information.)

Benefits of working with a life coach.

You are in control.  You decide what to discuss during the sessions.  Your life coach is your partner, guiding you through the sessions and providing non-judgemental support throughout the coaching process.  A life coach can provide you with accountability to keep you moving toward your goals.  You'll discuss and work through your life issues in a safe, trusting atmosphere.  There is no blaming, no yellinng, no guilt trips.  The life coach is in your corner throughout your working partnership, cheering you on toward a happier, more fulfilling life.  (Click here for more benefits of life coaching.)

What kind of life coach am I?

I'm pretty casual.  I want you to feel at ease and able to talk about your issues, dreams, and goals with me.  I provide the guidance, exercises, and accountability mentioned above.  I make sure that you follow through on tasks meant to bring you closer to your dreams.  I provide regular email support, sending you links and articles to compliment the coaching sessions.  We'll laugh, maybe even cry a little.  We'll celebrate your victories along the road to reaching your ultimate goals.  If something isn't working, we'll change direction.  No pressure.  What we talk about is up to you.  You lead the way and I'll guide you along, toward the happier life you desire, by asking appropriate questions.  Your answers to these questions will bring you closer to solving the issues that are standing in the way of your living the best life that you can.  I will help you discover your own answers to life's questions, and uncover the real you, helping you to become the best You you can be.  Through discussion and exercises, I can can help you break down barriers that are keeping you from experiencing life to the fullest.  

I will absolutely keep all your information and my conversations with you confidential.  I have a variety of coaching packages to choose from--short-term, medium-term, long-term, email coaching, phone coaching, month-to-month, etc.  You decide which package you would like.  You decided when the coaching partnership ends.  If you have any questions, be sure to contact me.  If you are interested in the free session to see if life coaching is for you and if I'm the right coach for you, click here

Do you need a life coach?

You may find life coaching beneficial if you:
  • feel stuck in your current life situation 
  • want to jazz up your life in general
  • need accountability, motivation, guidance and/or support to get through a temporary setback
  • need support and guidance during a loss of loved one, job, or pet
  • think about starting a fitness program but don't know where to begin
  • fear getting hurt if you start working out
  • have a health issue and wonder if you should be working out
  • have mobility issues due to an injury or medical condition
  • would like someone to provide accountability, motivation, support, encouragement and guidance as you make fitness a part of you life
  • need accountability, motivation, guidance and/or support to get through a temporary medical setback
  • have issues with family and/or friends related to mobility and medical problems
Check out the blue individual coaching tabs on my home page to see which type of coaching might be a good fit for you.  And, again, if you have any questions, please feel free to contact me.  I'd love to hear from you.