I've no doubt mentioned before that I don't like to drive. Well, I had a doctor's appointment today with a doctor I only see once a year, so I always have to refamiliarize myself with the route to his office. His office is located at a very busy intersection, and I'm always nervous that I'll get into a fender bender on the way there. But I was tired of being afraid. Tired of worrying. So, I decided to scope out other routes to his office. It occurred to me that it was a particularly difficult left-hand turn followed by the need for an immediate lane change in order to turn right into the office parking lot in time, that always gave me fits.
I remember talking with my sister-in-law about driving years ago, and she said that it doesn't matter how you get there, as long as you arrive safely. So, I started thinking of creatives ways to get to the office without making those tricky maneuvers. And, it came to me that I have no problem driving to another doctor's office located a mile or so down the same street from the office I was headed to today. So, instead of making that pesky left-hand turn, I drove straight through the intersection down to the left-hand turn I felt comfortable with, made the right turn into the other doctor's office parking lot, meandered around the lot to the exit, drove to the pesky intersection, hitting it from the other direction, took a right and another right into the parking lot, and, viola, I made it without incident.
Now that I've discovered a more stress-free way to get to the doctor's office, I won't feel so crazed the next time.
What activity stresses you out every time you have to do it? Do you get overly nervous before a doctor's appointment? Do you freak out when confronted with anything unfamiliar? If so, take a step back, relax, and brainstorm ways you can tackle the problem and make the situation much less stressful. What bothers you most? What adjustments could you make that would ease the stress? Who could you ask for help? Good luck!
I would love to hear how you help avoid, or at least diffuse, stressful situations. Email me at firstname.lastname@example.org or post a comment below. Thanks! Have a great weekend.